More on
Suffering
I’ve talked about this in
several of the previous articles, but I have more to say. The religious
hucksters love to prey on the ignorant and unsuspecting by preaching a
gospel that promises emotional and material blessing now to those who
would embrace it. "Come to God and get in on the good life that He
promises and that only He can give." And the good life described by
these deceptive entrepreneurs is not a future life with God in the
eternal state, but a life in the present where all their desires (if
tempered by the right moral values) are fulfilled. You would think these
guys were gleaning their message from Hollywood and Jack Nicholson
movies: "Did you ever think that maybe this is as good as it
gets?"
If you went to the
Christian Book Store (please don’t), you’d see shelf after shelf of
religious fantasies with titles like the currently popular "Your
Best Life Now". Am I missing something here? Is not the underlying
theme of everything God has ever revealed to man the promise of
something better in the next life? Now, I’m not a man who is generally
prone to fear or depression, but if I truly believed that this is as
good as it gets, I’d be quickly driven to a deep, dark despair from
which there would be no return. My hope for a future eternity with a
righteous and holy God is the reason I get up in the morning.
So, what’s my point?
There’s a huge gulf that separates truth from the message heard by
most of those who attend the various religious institutions or look for
answers in religious books. Let me explain. Since the fall of man, this
life was never meant to be easy or carefree. Remember the curse
described in Genesis 3? It was the result of man’s disobedience
and every aspect of the curse made this life more difficult and
problematic. Jesus’ statement in Matthew 7:13-14 could not be
more clear when He describes the life of the believer as one that is
compressed by the pressure of obstacles that must be overcome.
OK, there’s a bigger
point I have to make here. The fact is this: coming to God does not make
this life better or easier; it makes this life even harder and more
difficult. Let’s review. When we truly submit our lives to God and to
His purpose (and remember what that purpose is – to conform us to the
image of His Son), we are quickly introduced to the concept of
suffering. You can count on it. Things that never went wrong when you
were ignorant of truth and wallowing in error will go completely nuts
when you embrace truth. People who were loyal to you, who would follow
you into battle, who would give you the shirt off their back will
abandon you. People you love will hurt you. And to your total amazement,
you will hurt people you love.
And when you understand the
purpose of God and the fact that it is not simply a concept to be
understood in the mind, but a reality that must be experienced in life,
then suffering is recognized as part of the package. That’s why today’s
"bless me" gospel is so deceptive. Our carnal nature is such
that experiencing the kind of blessings that religion promises can never
change us. Religion always appeals to the flesh, thus the promise of the
things we all want. Yet, God demands that we reject our flesh and what
we want and embrace what He requires. Getting what we want will never
change us. God knows, and we have to accept the fact, that suffering is
what gives us the opportunities to change in the ways that He wants us
to change.
It is only the hurtful
circumstances and the stressful situations that push us into a corner,
forcing us to a point of decision. Am I going to be obedient to what I
know God wants or not? Am I going to obey my carnal nature or reject it
and suffer the consequences? Am I going to manipulate my options and try
to avoid this unpleasantness or recognize it as God working in my life
and submit to it? Or, if the situation is unavoidable, am I going to be
bitter and angry over it, or am I going to ask God to help me understand
it and benefit from it. Am I going to allow God to humble me, embarrass
me, hurt me, isolate me and ask me to give up the things I want or that
I think I need? In other words, am I going to submit to God so He can
continually put me in situations where I have the opportunity to reject
my flesh?
Even Jesus learned
obedience through the things He suffered (Hebrews 5:8) and His
willingness to suffer became the example we are all encouraged to follow
(I Peter 2:21). We are to share in His suffering (Philippians
3:10, I Peter 4:13) and have no reason to expect that we will
share in His glory if we don’t (Romans 8:17). And as I have
argued before, if the plan and purpose of God is that we submit to Him
and be changed into the image of His Son (Romans 8:29), then
change is required. And further, if suffering in all its various forms
is what God uses to facilitate that change, then what can I say about
those who want to avoid suffering? What is the true spiritual condition
of all those folks out there who will accept only a message that
promises blessing?
I know what the problem is.
This whole business about suffering just sounds wrong. It’s negative.
It’s scary. It doesn’t feel right. It’s not what we want to hear.
It doesn’t make us feel good. You certainly can’t build a church on
it. But these last seven statements all come from our carnal nature. So,
there is a bottom line here. I talk about it in the article
"Avoiding the Dog and Hog Disease, Part 2: Self Preservation and
Materialism". When we truly submit to God and to His purpose (I
mean completely surrender and learn to be honest and transparent with
Him), then we learn two things: the first is that we must embrace
suffering (the subject of this article); the second is that the things
that are important to religious institutions (more specifically, moral
values) are not necessarily important to God. This second thing will be
the subject of a future article.
But for now, let’s
concentrate on the concept of embracing suffering. The Book of I
Peter is the example I like to use and I’ll try to be brief.
Peter
understood suffering. He talks about it in every chapter of this letter,
five chapters with five different aspects of suffering. In chapter one
he explains that suffering is necessary to prove the genuineness of our
faith (verse 7). The word translated "trial" in most
translations is dokimion from the verb dokimazo and is a
test to prove whether or not something is real or acceptable. In this
case the meaning is clear. God uses suffering in our lives to test us to
see if our faith is real.
And let’s be clear on
this point. Faith (pistis) is not what we believe or accept as
true in our minds. In Scripture, faith describes our real experiences
with God (Hebrews 11). Faith defines our relationship with Him, a
personal relationship in which we are submitted to Him and He is
personally involved in our lives to accomplish His plan and purpose.
And
Peter tells us that God uses suffering to test the reality of that
relationship. What’s the application here? When we encounter
difficulties, when we suffer, what is our response? Do we take it
patiently (James 1:3) and seek to understand God’s reason for
allowing it? Do we try to be Christ-like in our response to it so we can
learn and grow from the experience? Or do we try to avoid it or rebel
against it?
And, we should emphasize
this point as well; the test is for our good, not God’s. He knows what
we’re going to do before we ever do it. But the purpose of it is to
teach us. When we respond correctly, we have a sense of His approval;
but when we don’t, it exposes our weakness. And when we fail, in His
mercy He allows us to take the test again. If we’re truly submitted to
Him, we recognize our failure, repent and determine to pass the test the
next time we face it. If we’re not submitted to Him, we continue to
resist. Then reality is revealed, maybe not to us (because we’re so
good at deceiving ourselves), but to Him.
In chapter two Peter talks
about undeserved suffering (verses 20 - 23) and the fact that it
is unavoidable in the believer’s life. Why is undeserved suffering
required? Because when we suffer in this way it gives us the opportunity
to be Christ-like. He wasn’t guilty of anything. He wasn’t deceitful
in any way. Yet, when He suffered abuse, He didn’t fight back or
retaliate in any way. He simply trusted His Father. Given our ability to
protect ourselves, justify ourselves and keep others from taking
advantage of us in any way, underserved suffering is a supreme test of
our willingness to control our flesh. And when we do, God is pleased,
because we have just demonstrated an important aspect of the character
and nature of His Son.
Chapter three talks about
suffering for the sake of righteousness (verse 14). The word in
the text is dikaiosune and describes what is just or right.
For
every believer righteousness is the fulfillment of all that God is.
We
are to be partakers of His divine nature (II Peter 1:4). And if
we are, then we determine to be like Him and do what He does. Of course
this will cause conflicts in our lives as we refuse to follow our flesh,
cave in to the pressures the world puts on us or give in to the
temptations of evil. As Peter cautions in this same verse, we shouldn’t
be afraid of the opposition this brings. Again, it proves a reality in
our lives: are we more concerned about God’s approval or do we take
the deceptively easy way out and act in a way that gains the approval of
those around us.
Suffering because you bear
the name of Christ is found in chapter four (verse 14). Here
Peter tells us that when we suffer the abuse of others because of our
obvious devotion to Him, we’re fortunate. Why? Because it is certain
evidence that the Spirit of God is resting on us. Talk about a reality
check, this is certainly it. When even unbelievers (as ignorant and
rebellious as they are) recognize God in your life and abuse you for it,
then it’s real!
Then in chapter five, and
this is my favorite one; Peter talks about suffering at the hands of
evil (verses 6-10). And, if you’re familiar with what I’ve
said in previous articles on so-called spiritual warfare, I’m not big
on yelling at the devil or making false claims of authority that I don’t
have where he’s concerned. The key to avoiding unnecessary suffering
at the hands of evil is and always will be humility (as in most other
cases, just the opposite of what religion claims). Humility is how Peter
starts this paragraph on suffering. Of course, anyone familiar with the
Gospel accounts knows that even Jesus suffered at the hands of evil.
Yes, when it was the Father’s plan, Jesus exposed and triumphed over
evil; but by the same token, when it was His plan Jesus suffered the
abuse of evil and was powerless to avoid it.
And it is not possible for
us to avoid it either, as Peter makes clear in verse 9 when he
tells us that this kind of suffering is appointed to the whole
brotherhood of believers. Isn’t it strange how religious types want to
believe they can control their own fate? They want to believe they have
power over the devil and his imps. It’s a fleshly response coming out
of religious institutions that are purposely crafted to appeal to the
flesh. Only God has power over the devil and the devil is the prince
(ruler) of this world (John 12:31) and the god of this world (II
Corinthians 4:4).
But this is the good part.
Let me translate verse 10 for you. This is what it says: "And
the God Who is generous in giving His favor and blessing, the One Who
has called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have
suffered a little while, will make you everything that He wants you to
be, then you’ll never change, you’ll never suffer again and that’s
the way it will be forever." What a fantastic promise! Of
course the part about suffering "a little while" is God’s
perspective. We may groan and moan and wonder "how long, Oh
Lord", but it really is just a short time.
And here I have to quote
Paul, "I reckon that the sufferings of this present life cannot
be compared to the glory that will be revealed in us." So,
those who have bought into religion and its empty promises can have
their best life now, if that’s what they choose. I’d rather have the
life that God has chosen for me, including all the suffering that He has
determined, so I can have my best life for all eternity.
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